GITLAB won't let me login

How to Use GitLab Self-managed
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I have access and verified to github, and also this forum, via github. But, I can’t get access to GitLab.

  1. when I try to register, it says I exist already, so I try my PW, it’s incorrect,
  2. I try to reset pasword, numerous times, and it never sends, yes checked spam
  3. I try to resend the confirmation email, doesn’t send…
  4. I’ve tried to auth via github, I have given permission, I see it and can “revoke” but still not letting me in
  5. it tells me to talk to an admin…

HELP!!!

I’m completely stuck.